عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ مَا أَكَلَ
أَحَدٌ طَعَامًا قَطُّ خَيْرًا مِنْ أَنْ يَأْكُلَ مِنْ عَمَلِ يَدِهِ
The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him)
said, "No one has ever eaten food better than earning from the actions of
his hand (working)." (Al-Bukhari).
Here we go again! Hmm, this seems
to a common theme. For some reason I coming across people who are not just
willing to work and not really concerned about working. They would rather take
money from the government and their relatives.
Neither of these things should be
a goal in one's life! 'When I grow up I do not work and sponge off the
government!' The reality is that the majority people work and only the minority
do not; some however choose not to. Maybe because they have other means of
supporting themselves like investments or whatever. But the person who does not
work because he is too lazy to work needs to be told off in the sternest manner
and his head shaven! But for some that might not help.
Prophets
The Prophets and Messengers (may
Allah send them peace and blessings) are the exemplars of mankind in all
aspects of life. So when we look at them we can see many examples that we can
follow. Some were traders, soldiers, farmers, sheppard's and all were teachers
etc.
أن رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم قال: كان زكريا عليه السلام نجاراً
رواه مسلم.
The Messenger of Allah (may Allah
bestow peace and blessings upon him) said, "Zakariyah (the Prophet), upon
him peace, was a carpenter." (Muslim).
Our beloved Prophet (may Allah
bestow peace and blessings upon him) was a shepherd working to help his family
out and latter on in life he was trader; in the business of his uncle. Ali (may
Allah ennoble his face) used to bring water to people in Medinah. Most of the
companions were traders if they were from Mekkah and those from Medinah were
mostly farmers.
If the prophets (upon them all peace) are the best of mankind worked; do
you think that you are better than them and do not have to work? They worked
and so should you.
If you are trying to find work and are not having much luck then know I
am not referring to you all. I'm referring to those who are able to work and
simply chose not to.
The greatest Islamic empire was the Ottoman empire without any doubt.
The caliphs were leaders of millions of Muslims covering a vast empire and yet each
leader had a trade. They had guilds and were craftsmen and so forth. We are not
better than these people.
Hadith
عَنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ قَالَ وَإِنَّ
نَبِيَّ اللَّهِ دَاوُدَ عَلَيْهِ السَّلَام كَانَ يَأْكُلُ مِنْ عَمَلِ يَدِهِ أخرجه
البخاري
The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him)
said, "Dawood, upon him peace, used to eat from the actions of his
hand." (Al-Bukhari).
The Prophet (may Allah bestow
peace and blessings upon him) once sold some of his own items to give a man sufficient
funds to buy an axe so he could become a woodcutter. Thus becoming independent,
see the brilliance of the Prophet (may
Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) in this matter. Rather than make the
man dependent on handouts, he made him independent.
Man-like
A man's worth is in his work. If he does not work, even though he can,
he does not have the value. Many women work and earn more than their male
counterparts. Especially when their husbands are from Pakistan and can only do
low paid jobs. There are women who are more educated in the west and earn more
than their partners. This is quite embarrassing for many males. They are
insulted and even feel that their manhood's are blighted. In most cases the gap
cannot be breached because they cannot re-educate themselves. So just accept it
as it is and move on.
Women are more beneficial to their families that the men are. They are like men or
worth more! Because the women will come home after working all day to cook and
clean. Women have the same status as a man would and are more worthy of being
called a man than lazy man asleep in his bed at dinner time.
Take aim
As for those who work and do their best for their families you are like
gold; as far as I am concerned. You are doing a brilliant job and I salute you.
Be you male or female; you are doing brilliantly.
Law
As far as a man is concerned with his wife, kids, parents too old to
work and family he has to provide for them (Quduri). If he does not he is
sinful and you can read up about this in the
books of Islamic law. This is in terms of housing, clothing and food
etc. So the upkeep of the wife is upon the husband. She on her part has to
respect her husband's wishes because of it. Though it was part of European culture
for both genders to say that they 'love, honour and obey' their spouse. The man
on his part should never take advantage of the weakness of his wife. More can
be read about this about the treatment of women post; click here.
In any case women have more rights to be fulfilled than then the men. He
has a lot to do for her that she does not for him. But that a totally different
subject.
Attitudes to work
One of the most brain numbing things that I see is the young man who has a job, wants to get paid but does not want to do any work! He claims that racism has stopped his progress and that he is treated badly. Well look at this clearly, you come into work when you feel like, spend most of your time on your mobile phone and chatting to people. Maybe 20% of your time at work is spend actually doing anything! You barely get anything done but you want to be paid??! This is a type of lying because in your employment contract contains an agreement to work and do your best with what is reasonably requested from you.
If you are at work and do not do much then why would anyone employ someone like that? If you had a business and you had two options: one of a person who slacks off at every given opportunity or someone who works hard? Who would you chose? The answer is that you would not employ yourself!
If you are at work then keep your head down and get on with your work. Yes talk to people but do not spend 2 hours talking about non-work related nonsense. Then complaining about racism when they will overlook you for promotion. Most hard working people who faces does not fit are overlooked when it comes to promotion. Never mind someone who does not do any work!
Most of these kids are spoilt ungrateful brats who may never learn the error of their ways because they will never ask hard questions of themselves.
A honest day's pay
There is nothing better than doing an honest days work for a honest day's
pay. In fact it's one of the best things one can do. It's also great for the
nafs because it brings it down a few pegs and keeps it busy.
If you allow your nafs to be unoccupied it will rebel and you start
sinning. Working is one of the ways of keeping the nafs tired so it does not
have the energy to commit sins!
If you are not working then the least you should be doing is the prayer.
You have no excuse is missing it and nor is their excuse even if you are
working.
Losing ones Job
It is difficult for anyone to lose their job. It causes a lot of damage because people are not able to move on. So some time needs to be taken so they can take stock of the situation and move forward. It harms men particularly deeply because they are the main breadwinners. Then it is taken from them.
The man needs support and time to get going again.
Opportunities
If you need other skills then seek them. If you want to try a few
matters then pray Istikhara prayer and you'll find the right one open to you
and the others closed. Unless, in the unlikely event of both being open for
you. Keep trying to look for work and make use of your time with acts of worship.
We hope that you have all the success in the world looking for lawful income.
So now we vented our spleen all over the place. We hope that its been
useful for you to ponder and reflect. Peace!
