These are the hadiths that are relevant:
These hadith have to be explained and understood. This is something that caused me a lot of grief, when this question was asked of me. Now firstly we have to look at what our scholars said.
How the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) treated women click here
Treatment of women click here
Women's reward in paradise click here
Hijab in the modern context click here
Can women visit graves? click here