Family part two of two
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Sunday, December 28, 2014
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Friday, December 19, 2014
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Wednesday, December 10, 2014
Sunday, December 07, 2014
Saturday, December 06, 2014
Monday, December 01, 2014
General manners when attending lectures
General manners when attending lectures
Please bear the following in mind:
1. Please park in place that is not obstructing anyones vehicle or
driveway.
2. Please arrive on time with materials to take notes
3. Lower one's gaze in presence of the opposite gender in the car
park and stall area.
4. Maintain ablution throughout lecture.
5. Turn phone off or silent if in needed (life or death).
6. Wait patiently with either reading ones notes or reading salawat.
7. Shoes should all be placed in lines in an orderly fashion.
8. Brothers should be sat in neat lines as in prayer.
9. Ideally white jubba and hat should be worn.
10. Use breaks to renew wudu, rest, review notes and avoid backbiting
at all costs.
11. When lecture begins pay attention and do not be distracted by
noises outside.
12. Children who cannot remain silent should be left with a carer. Do
not let one's children to be a nuisance to others. Leave them in the crèche and
do not allow them to disturb others.
13. If you have to leave for dire need then leave quietly and do not
disturb others.
14. Do not speak to your neighbour when the teacher is speaking.
15. Come to the lecture with questions in your hearts and allow the
answers to flow from the Sheikh's tongue.
16. Do not crowd to the front to greet the Sheikh. Come if Sheikh
allows it and do not make unreasonable requests.
17. Do not eat in the prayer area rather in designated areas.
18. Leave when lectures are over as organisers may need to close the
Masjid.
19. Beware of taking photos with your phones as some may flash.
20. Please allow audio and visual team space to do their job.
21. Learn, practice and enjoy!
Sunday, November 30, 2014
Wednesday, November 26, 2014
Sunday, November 23, 2014
Thursday, November 20, 2014
Wednesday, November 19, 2014
Tuesday, November 18, 2014
I condemn you all
I condemn you all
Why should I say anything?
Why should I condemn?
Because you told me to?
Because I should act for justice?
Then let me begin
Are you sitting comfortably?
I condemn those who fabricated a war for natural resources
I condemn those who engineer consent to genocide
I condemn those who invaded peaceful counties
I condemn those who encouraged others to invade
I condemn the racist media - a product of war propaganda
I condemn those who steal land from the massacred
I condemn those who support murderers
I condemn those who bring peace with guns and bombs
I condemn the war machine
I condemn those who with guns
I condemn those who kill and harm innocent civilians
I condemn those who point fingers at others for less
I condemn those who ignore their own criminals
I condemn those companies who exploit modern slaves
I condemn all who fund groups to destabilise sovereign
nations
I condemn those who bomb civilians and send in the troops
I condemn those who torture people
I condemn you all who keep innocents behind bars
I condemn you all
I condemn all those who kill, maim, and harm innocents in
any manner
I condemn you all repeatedly
Did you get all that?
Did I cover it all?
You wanted my condemnation
Here is my condemnation
I hope it makes you happy
Thursday, November 13, 2014
Wednesday, November 12, 2014
Sunday, November 09, 2014
Saturday, November 08, 2014
Bidyah Al-Sul fi Tafdil al-Rasul
Based on the text by Sheikh Izzuddin Abdussalam about the many virtues of the Blessed Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him)
Wednesday, November 05, 2014
Sunday, November 02, 2014
Saturday, November 01, 2014
Ahl Al-Bayt - forty hadith Sheikh Yusuf Al-Nabahani
Correction on categories of Ahl Al-Bayt
According to Hanafis: five groups of the tribe of Hashim: the family of Ali, Jafar, 'Aqil, Al-Abbas and Al-Harath son of Abd Al-Muttalib.
Shafis: the tribe of Hashim and Al-Muttalib
Hanbalis and Malikis: the tribe Hashim (Source Commentry Jawhar Al-Tawheed)
According to Hanafis: five groups of the tribe of Hashim: the family of Ali, Jafar, 'Aqil, Al-Abbas and Al-Harath son of Abd Al-Muttalib.
Shafis: the tribe of Hashim and Al-Muttalib
Hanbalis and Malikis: the tribe Hashim (Source Commentry Jawhar Al-Tawheed)
Wednesday, October 29, 2014
Sunday, October 26, 2014
Friday, October 24, 2014
Wednesday, October 22, 2014
Monday, October 20, 2014
The Ideal Masjid: my dream
For some time I have thought
about the ideal masjid, how it would be and what would it be. Of course
the perfect masjid is the masjid of the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings
upon him) in Medinah. Anything else is very far from perfection because of the fact
that is the place that the blessed body of the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and
blessings upon him) rests.
Okay so what am I actually after
then? What would the best masjid be like in the UK? What do we need in the
UK? We have major problems with politics
in western masjids. There are just too many egos involved for any masjid to be
considered in this post. So well done all those who are doing better job than disbelievers by turning people away from praying in the masjids because of the fireworks
of the committees members!
Ethnic nonsense
Someone told me how different ethnic
groups were fighting trying to take control of the masjid. If you are doing
this then you are not worthy of serving the community. So whom are you serving?
Your own inflated egos because Allah is not served except by worship for Him
and not by putting your name on the committee list.
People turn away from the masjids
when they hear stories of the old people fighting in the masjids with their
walking sticks! Let us get one thing straight now, the state of our
masjids is nothing but deplorable. Maybe a few are getting close to what they
should be but most are failing.
So here, I would like to outline
some things I would like to see. Some businesses have the policy that their
staff reflect the people present in the surrounding location. Muslims
have a lot to learn from the standards and service of non-Muslims. Many times, Muslims
treat their own with disrespect and it is a sad fact of the times we live in.
Back to our subject at hand.
Masjid committees must be made up of the attendees. In terms of age, background
and nationality. All too often, we find people pretending to do for the sake of
Allah but are really doing it for the sake of their nafs. As much as the building
is impressive, the more depressing is how the committee works. Money was taken by the committee members from
family and others, in less than ethical manners. They are unconcerned where
the money comes from or whether it was halal or not.
Tranquility
Masjids should be a place of security and
serenity. Instead of what they are, a battle ground for old people with sticks.
It is no wonder that people do not go to the masjids. The punishment for turning one
person away from the masjid is almost as bad as enjoining disbelief. When they
actually see the punishment only then they will realise their error. Until then its business
as usual in the old boys club! Because a masjid is for the sake of Allah and
not old men! If it is for the sake of your name and standing in society then
you already have your reward which was your name on the building. So do not
expect any reward for an old boys club or from Allah!
How should it look like?
Good question, traditionally when
Muslims came into countries they would evaluate what was good about that
country and give it a new lease of life. In things
like the building of architecture and other good things. You will find
masjids in India reflecting the architecture that was their previously. Masjids
have some signs of being made from temples. In terms of domes but with minarets.
Look at Chinese masjids and there is very little to differentiate them from the
temples of the previous religious traditions. Look at the masjids in Morocco
and how the minarets are different to other geographical areas in the Muslim
world. Other minarets are circular and longer. So the masjids reflected the architecture
of the people present in that area. It was not something very alien to that
culture implanted there and looking at out of place as a banana tree in a park!
Purpose built
Interestingly enough most masjids
were previously churches whose congregation no longer attend. So they go up for
sale. So in terms of the exterior little can be changed without planning
permission. Internally the structure is changed to suit the needs of the
attendees. Often this means that extra space has to be found and more work
needs to be done internally. Often all that is done externally is a change of
signs. Having purpose built masjids is sometimes the answer but it is expensive
and it can be an eyesore to non-Muslims locals.
So we have to bear this in mind
at the design stage. Parking is another pain for local residents on Fridays,
funerals and other events. So the masjid needs adequate parking and attendants
at busy times. Alternatively, areas where they are allowed to park. Ideally, we
would like to have parking attendants that would look and check where people
park. Rather than have people park on pavements because, they cannot park on
streets! Is it only me who thinks this is illogical! A purpose build masjid must
have sufficient parking for at least one hundred cars or even more, but this
depends on the size of the masjid. However, it is better for people to walk for
long distances to get to jummah.
Exterior and Interior
Now there needs to be some
reflection on the architecture here in this country. So that the indigenous non-Muslim
population do not see the building as alien to their sensibilities, rather it
should be seen as a fabric of that region. So the building itself is an act of
Dawah. Please see the two following
pictures explaining the ground floor of the masjid.
Abu Hanifah (may Allah show him
mercy) recommended white washed walls without decoration. We see the opposite
in many masjids in the UK, it is almost like doing to a disco and there are far
too many pictures. This should be shocking for everyone because you do
not see this in places they come from. But there must be some die hard disco
lovers of the eighties on the committees! All signs must be outside on the
walls before the prayer area, so there are no confusing lights for worshippers.
I wonder about those who have reactions to strobe lighting, how do they pray in
the discos?
Access for disabled must be taken
into consideration when designing entrances and staircases, lifts etc.
I was thinking about the stained
glass that is commonly found in churches, it was stolen from the Muslims!
Heating and lighting should be by the means of solar power and water and other
things should be recycled or environmentally friendly. As well as all cleaning,
materials should be biodegradable. The building must be energy efficient and
friendly to the environment. You can see the drawings of the possible floor
plans. Additional 'student' flats should be part of the masjid properties. The
reason for this is to provide revenue to the masjid. In addition, a shop that
sells religious books and clothing should also be part of the building. These would
make use of revenue that is entering the masjid is lawful and makes it less
reliant on committee members seeking funding.
Essentially the exterior could be in any style but it does need a sign that helps is stand out as a masjid.
Committee members
As we said before we think committees
members should be made up of the most knowledge members of the community. Not
retired uncles who are ready to wield walking sticks when disagreement occurs. Alternatively,
have no committee at all and just the Imam in charge. Ideally we need and Imam
and a scholar who heads the committee and they make the final choice. The more
I think about it dissolving the committee forever seems like the best option.
Why because they many do not understand the importance of Islamic knowledge.
If they are to be kept in place
then a code of conduct needs to be written up. Anyone trying to oust someone
else loses his or her place and the place of their relatives for the foreseeable
future. No two relatives can be on the board at any one time without exception.
People can resign and the committee can dissolved if fighting occurs. These are
some additional conditions and more can be added depending on circumstances.
General guidelines
We would like them to be clearly
displayed before attendants enter the prayer:
1. No one is allowed to approach
anyone because they think they are praying incorrectly. This issue causes many
people not to return to masjids once they are approached by bearded individual
who offends them.
2. Everyone is welcome and
accepted. People must greet each other especially those who they do not know.
3. Only mainstream Sunni Islam can
be taught here.
4. No one can disturb anyone's
prayer or Quranic recitation.
5. Everyone must show respect to
each other.
6. No one is better than anyone
else except by Taqwa/piety and that is hidden.
If no committee, members agree to
this then its better for the masjid to be a dictatorship with one leader and a set of volunteers.
Imam
This is the most important
position of the masjid. He has to be a bilingual Imam and one of his languages
must be English! There could be as many as four Imams, two part time and two
full time. Also there needs to be a scholar who directs the teaching syllabus.
As well as four callers to prayer. Ideally, they should all be paid but maybe
the callers to prayers should voluntary. With specified tasks and times for
each one. There is nothing wrong with having different languages but English is
necessary. Speaking only in ones native tongue makes the masjid exclusive,
which is one of the worst problems in our times.
Imams and scholars should also
have more than another role or another lawful job outside the masjid.
Other services
The masjid has to have counselling
services for the marital problems and drug addiction. We need to clean our own
back yards. Either we charge for counselling services or they can be volunteers.
We need to have a crèche for busy periods and maybe a nursery or a Muslim
school. Having a Muslim school would make full use of the building. We do need
qualified teachers or those who have been educated to degree level. They need
to crb checked as do all those involved in the masjid.
Weddings could be held in the
ground floor to raise money. Also finding compatible people to marry each other
should also be priority.
The overflow in the masjid must
be used in the basement or outside in the car park. Extra mats will be needed
for this.
Masjid mortgage programme
This is something that could be a
reality if done correctly. The plan for the masjid to raise funds locally for
the project and when a million pounds is raised, we go to the next stage. Which
is removing all the Muslims from interest based mortgages for their homes.
The programme buys the house that
someone wants to buy. Then a separate agreement is made to give the house to
the person after a fixed amount is paid. These programmes can free Muslims from
this system with whole areas becoming mortgage free.
The same could be applied to
insurance where people pay the going rate according to their situation without
the debt of interest.
Women
This is also a big issue and the
reason for including them in the design of the masjid is that every group
except the Sunni's. If the Sunnis do not provide facilities for them then they will go
elsewhere. You can pick up the groups from a hat. So the 'ladies area' is not
classed as the masjid. They can enter the area in a state of menstruation or
they can follow the Imam if they are praying.
The crèche in the masjid allows
those with children to drop them off and attend functions or the prayer. As for
attending prayers there are differences of opinion check your school but in Hanafi's
fiqh women can attend prayers in no fitna is caused, fajr and Isha is mentioned.
Yet we have to look at their safety but if they want to do then you cannot stop
them. Their presence should not cause distress to her family, if she goes to
prayer. There are other differences on what prayers they can attend.
Lessons
There needs to be general lessons
for the public and specific lessons for seekers. General lessons are for
everyone to enjoy and specific lessons are those who want to become scholars.
Knowledge is an important part of
the masjid programme. Also deaf and blind should be considered when they attend classes or Khutbas.
Purpose
We want the masjid to be a place where
people come together for the purpose of worship of Allah (the Exalted). Not a
place of tribal loyalty and politics that resembles an old boys club. In other words
a place that serves the committees members and not the needs of the community
as they claim. Although not all this can be done but some of it can be.
We need some rich Muslims with insight to come together and do this. Maybe this may never come to fruition and it is just a dream. Who knows?
We need some rich Muslims with insight to come together and do this. Maybe this may never come to fruition and it is just a dream. Who knows?
Rather than complain about the current situation of our masjids. I wanted to outline how the ideal masjid should be. Our towns and cities are full of masjids that are beautiful on the outside but ugly on the inside. If we do not change these problems then our children will face the same problems. Do we really want to see this awful problems passed on?
As usual, I am unable to change anything
including myself but collectively we can change things. The vision is simple,
make a masjid that serves Allah (the Exalted) by serving the needs of the
people. It sounds simple but only a few masjids of the hundreds in this country
actually do this. Most are just empty buildings except for twice a year. This is not
progress, it is the exact opposite.
If those reading this are in a position of power then try to make small changes and ask the question. What are we not doing that needs to be done? This post holds all your answers but are there people brave enough to carry it out?
If those reading this are in a position of power then try to make small changes and ask the question. What are we not doing that needs to be done? This post holds all your answers but are there people brave enough to carry it out?
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