Virtues Cardiff 2013
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Friday, May 31, 2013
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Monday, May 27, 2013
Saturday, May 25, 2013
The importance of adab for the seeker of the divine
Adab can be translated several ways: deportment, manners and
etiquette are some of the possible translations.
The word to begin بدأ is the word adab
backwards. So if you begin with adab you will reach your aim. But if you have
no adab then you have not begun the path. How you start your journey will have
a bearing on your final destination. Ibn Ata Allah Al-Askandari (may Allah show
him mercy) said, “He who is illumined at the beginning; is illumined at the
end.” That is why beginnings are so important.
Consider the English saying, ‘Start as you mean to go on.’
Someone who proceeds correctly will succeed correctly.
Elsewhere Ibn Ata Allah Al-Askandari (may Allah show him
mercy) described Adab as, “Correct behavior means that you are occupied with
commendable things.” Use your time as a means to benefit your afterlife.
Someone asked him what he meant. He said, “This means you observe correct behavior with Allah both inwardly and outwardly. If you conduct yourself in
this way, you will have correct behavior, even if your speech is not of an Arab.”
Yahya Ibn Muadh (may Allah show him mercy) said, “One who is
well versed in correct behavior toward Allah (the Exalted) will become one of
those who he loves.”
Adab means to put something in its proper place and the
opposite is oppression. There is adab in everything we do and the manner in
which it is carried out. If an action is carried out without adab of the Sheikh
then we need to accuse ourselves of failure. Essentially Adab is understanding
of the manner of the implementation of the Sunnah and that can only be taken
from a Sheikh.
The taking of the oath/Bayah from a spiritual master of our
Sheikh is adherence to the spiritual way of Imam Abu Hassan Al-Shadhali (may
Allah show him mercy). It is not mere lip service. It is a serious commitment
to follow this way and forsake what we knew before.
We try to emulate him because he is our exemplar in his role
of spiritual inheritor of the Prophetic legacy, “The scholars are inheritors of
the Prophets.” (Muslim).
The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bestow peace and blessings
upon him) is described as Aswatu Hassan/The greatest example in the Quran but
for who? For he who want to meet his Lord.
Bad adab can be in the manner in which the seeker reacts towards his Sheikh, his brethren and worse of all Allah (the
Exalted). This can be manifest when the seeker dislikes or even questions the
decree of Allah (the Exalted). Allah has been looking after you all your life,
so why do you question him now when things do go to your plan? Everything is going according to His plan so relax!
Dhu Al-Noon Al-Misri (may Allah show him mercy) said, “If
the beginner, on the Sufi path, turns away from correct behavior; he is sent
back to where hence he came.”
We need to vigilant not to commit sins and get sent back to square one. If we do then we repent and renew our commitment to obedience.
We miss basics when we cheat, lie and steal. All of which belie the one we claim to follow (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him).
We need to vigilant not to commit sins and get sent back to square one. If we do then we repent and renew our commitment to obedience.
We miss basics when we cheat, lie and steal. All of which belie the one we claim to follow (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him).
Adab can be defined as excellent conduct and the only place
you can find that is the Sunnah. Have the best adab with your Sheikh, your
brothers and sisters on this path, your family, your colleagues, and the people
you meet and in dhikr gatherings. One of the adabs that is missing is in dhikr
gatherings. When people are easily distracted by text messages and phones.
If you face someone and turn away then it is bad adab. When you are in dhikr gatherings you do not turn away but focus on the meaning of the words that you are saying. Adab with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) is following in his footsteps in all matters. This is all easy to say but hard to do.
If you face someone and turn away then it is bad adab. When you are in dhikr gatherings you do not turn away but focus on the meaning of the words that you are saying. Adab with the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) is following in his footsteps in all matters. This is all easy to say but hard to do.
Sheikh Muhammad said in his directions for seekers, “Do not
be distracted by others on board.” This could be people on the same path or
other people who harm you.
The hadith that would solve ninety percent of our problems
if it was adhered to is, “From the perfection of one Islam is to leave that
which does not concern you.” Avoid debates, arguements and focus on seeking
knowledge. Know what to do if you make a
mistake in the prayer.
Imam As-Shafi (may Allah be pleased with him) was asked how
he attained such good character. He said that he took his critics seriously.
Many of us think we are good but we have to honest with
ourselves and look deeply – ask yourself painful questions.
“Be in the world as you are a stranger or a wayfarer.” (Bukhari) This is the hadith that a seeker
needs to adhere to. He knows that he is a passing by this world, stopping for a
while and moving on.
We are all travelling this path and we are all journeying.
The seeker on the spiritual path begins right so he can end right.
Friday, May 24, 2013
Thursday, May 23, 2013
Friday, May 17, 2013
Sheikh Yahya Rhodus
The Virtues of the Prophet Muhammad (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him)
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Sunday, May 12, 2013
Your Next Step
Yesterday, Sheikh (may Allah preserve him) spoke about
adab/etiquette and the importance of being vigilant against the slightest slip
ups, in all things. As it these were one of the ways that satan used to attack
the believer.
He continued to speak about how his murids should be in
public: dressed well, pressed clothes, clean, if in a group not shouting, like
and angel walking on the earth. Then he said something that has made me ponder
over since he said it. He said that a sufi should only be concerned with the
place his next step is going to be.
I found a great amount of meaning in these few words. He
told us that we should not be concerned about what does not concern us; instead
we should be concerned with what concerns us; which is where the next place the
foot will be. This reminded me of the hadith, the Prophet (peace and blessings
of Allah be upon him) said, “From the perfection of one’s Islam; is to leave
that which does not concern him.” At-Tirmidhi
Most of the things we pass by on the streets and in our
lives, do not concern us and they do not affect us. So why are we adding our
commentary to it? We are talking about what is around us but neglecting the
most important thing, where our next step will be. We could be stepping into
some filth or we could fall over or walk into something.
Someone I know told me that he was leaving the train station
today and he was looking at someone who was meeting his wife at the train
station. He thought to himself when his time would come (to have a family) then
he noticed that there was filth on the floor and narrowly avoided it. Then he
remembered what Sheikh said then he laughed and went on his way. He was
concerned about big issues that may or may not happen to him but he was neglecting
what his immediate concern was. The place in which his next foot step would be.
Friday, May 10, 2013
Sheikh Ibrahim Osi Efa
The Virtues of the Prophet Muhammad (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him)
In honour of Shaykh Al-Arabi Al-Darqawi (may Allah be pleased with him)
by arfan shah
In search of a master
Sixty times did he complete the mushaf
In search of a guide
In the jungle of the soul
Finally he came to the man mountain
The camel of gnosis
Refused and then accepted
He journeyed swiftly
Where many failed
Taking the wird
Taking the means
Taking the path
Two parts of the Hassani tree
Converged and renewed
Then gave birth to another light
Sent to guide his people
Enlightening the tribe Bani zarwal
40,000 guides made at hands
To spread the path across the maghrib
Explaining sincerity to the insincere
They came without shoe to visit
Letters like leaders
Urging you on
To maintain the path to Allah
He showed others the way
The light of the poles
He took the intoxicating drink of gnosis
Then the cup was passed on
Until it reached Ismail, Alawi and Hashim
Whose children intoxicated the world
Sincerity the secret of the men of Allah
Men of Allah (the Exalted)
Men of the Prophet (may Allah bestow and blessings upon him)
Came to guide the world
All you have to do is take their hand
Follow their lead into paradise
Wednesday, May 08, 2013
Monday, May 06, 2013
Sunday, May 05, 2013
The Disputations
Twenty five
1. Relief is
forthcoming.
2.
If you don’t have the guts to say something to my
face then you are a coward.
3.
No one says what they mean.
4.
Expect lies to come from peoples mouths.
5 .
The Mahdi will come in our darkest hour - therefore
there must be widespread corruption. This is one of his signs...
6.
Abu Madyan (may Allah be pleased with him) said,
'He who knows himself is not fooled by the peoples praise of him.'
7.
We are the largest ummah so we should have the
largest amount of martyrs, right?
8.
My silence is a fitna for our friendship.
9.
Don't be comfortable in the world because you are
going to leave it soon...
10.
Part of our belief in the day of judgement is that
the oppressed will be avenged on that day. So do be aggrieved when you do not
see it now. Man's ability for justice is limited and the justice of Allah is
absolute.
11.
“Surely, those who persecuted the believing men and
the believing women, then did not repent, for them there is the torment of
Hell, and for them there is the torment of burning.”
Sura Baruj 85:10
Sura Baruj 85:10
12.
When something does not work out have the guts to
admit your failure and step back.
13.
Emotions know no bounds.
14.
Keep moving on.
15.
You have no choice.
16.
What makes you weep when it was not meant for you?
17.
I am contemplating the end of everything.
18.
Your intention means more at the beginning than the
end.
19.
Your nafs needs to be shined by good works and
dhikr until its a joy to behold.
20. Just
because you are not sinful does not mean that you do not have to repent.
Friday, May 03, 2013
Thursday, May 02, 2013
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