Reflections on the farewell address Part one

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Sunday, June 29, 2014
Saturday, June 28, 2014
Wednesday, June 25, 2014
Ramadan times in UK
After observing sunrise times for years we have come to the
following conclusion. The earliest time fajr enters is 1.45 hours before
sunrise. (Its clearly visible at 1.30 hours before sunrise.) This is according to the naked eye as for the problem of twilight in
the summer months; if you use this rule of counting down 1.45 from sunrise you
will arrive to the approx time of ending time of the pre dawn meal.
So if sunrise is 4.40 am then closing the fast at 2.55. This
is the best option. Some masjids are closing their fasting times at 2am or even
1am. This is not correct and you are putting yourself under undue hardship.
This is not about being cautious because being cautious does not put one into
needless hardship.
The opening times, sunset times, are all the same give or
take a few minutes. Please note their is usually a difference between sunset and Maghrib prayer. There is also a small buffer (about fifteen minutes) in the morning; please bear that in mind.
The reason for the difference are those following
observatory times and not following naked eye. The naked eye was how it was
traditional used to calculate times.
Those who are fasting earlier times are making the fast unnecessarily
difficult, for them and other people. People generally go for the easy option
not the difficult one. Those who are propagating 1am times are causing undue
harm to their communities. People will either leave fasting altogether or use
times of other groups.
So well done for those doing this because you are driving
more masses to Wahabism. Also following the opinions of those who do not live or understand the local environment is not valid.
If you want to see a short text on fasting click here.
Sunday, June 22, 2014
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Wednesday, June 11, 2014
Sunday, June 08, 2014
Returning goodness for evil
The most engaging aspect of the character of the Prophet
(may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) was the way which he did not
return evil with evil. This might be obvious to some but when we look deeply at
his (may Allah bestow peace
and blessings upon him) character we see someone who is complete control of his being. So that he
(may Allah bestow peace
and blessings upon him) would not allow himself to be like other human beings, who let their emotions
rule their actions.
We have so many people who make mistimed statements and over
emotional declarations based purely on misinformed fervor. We see so many
speakers jump up and down with zealotry that it is very strange for an audience
to sit and listen to. We came to listen to words rather than listen to someone scream. Partly
because we are so used to people screaming that we cannot imagine someone
speaking and addressing the audience in a calm manner!
Whenever we hear people teach we want to feel that the
teacher is being nice to his students. We do not want to imagine a teacher being
harsh to his students but this does happen. Especially when teachers base their
speeches upon zealotry. Even though we cannot see an end to it. We really hope
that they will one day change the record but the mouth opens and the same
sound comes out.
The Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) had many enemies who did evil things to him: like slander, backbite, murder his relatives and so forth but that did not make him climb the minbar and swear at them or offend them. Like what speakers do now in a vain attempt to defend him (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) by the worst manners possible! Manners that he (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) never used himself! It can never be justified to swear on the minbar preaching Islam nor use foul language. Such people do not follow the Sunnah in public and will almost certainly not in private! They themselves have forgotten to follow the Sunnah that they preach other people to follow!
The Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) had many enemies who did evil things to him: like slander, backbite, murder his relatives and so forth but that did not make him climb the minbar and swear at them or offend them. Like what speakers do now in a vain attempt to defend him (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) by the worst manners possible! Manners that he (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) never used himself! It can never be justified to swear on the minbar preaching Islam nor use foul language. Such people do not follow the Sunnah in public and will almost certainly not in private! They themselves have forgotten to follow the Sunnah that they preach other people to follow!
Abu l’Qasim Al-Junaid Al-Baghdadi (may Allah show him mercy)
said something that resonates this clearly, “The Sufi is like the earth upon
which all manner of ugliness is thrown upon it and not but beauty comes from
it.” (p.9 Ibn ‘Ajibah Haqaiq Al-Tasawaf)
The earth is an extremely good example because one of the
manners of cultivating soil is by using manure. As it contains part of the
goodness that is in plants so this is replacing the nutrients in the
soil. The Sufi: meaning the one who practices Islamic spirituality and not the
person who has a title without any reality. We mean those who striving the
following the character of the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon
him) to their utmost. They fulfill this characteristic and how few of them they
are in this world.
We live with so many things and people who lack the patience to wait a few minutes behind drivers who have stalled without sounding
their horns. We live in a time when being virtueless is a virtuous. When vice
is very nice and where conformity is confirmed. In the melee of this time of rebellion
we need to learn this vital fact about our religion.
(وَلا تَسْتَوِي الْحَسَنَةُ وَلا السَّيِّئَةُ ادْفَعْ بِالَّتِي
هِيَ أَحْسَنُ فَإِذَا الَّذِي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ عَدَاوَةٌ كَأَنَّهُ وَلِيٌّ
حَمِيمٌ). (فصلت:34).
“Evil and good actions are not the same; repel with that is better and if there was between you and them enmity then he shall be guiding patron.” (Fusalat 41:34)
This is the source for the action of repelling evil with goodness. Ibn Abbas (may Allah be pleased with him) said about, “repel with that is better,” he said,
، قال ابن عباس: أمر بالصبر عند الغضب، وبالحلم
عند الجهل، وبالعفو عند الإساءة.
“(It
means) patience when angered, forbearance with ignorance and pardoning in
offense.”
If you do something for the sake of Allah, He will change
the situation between you and the other party. All that is needed is a little
sincere effort and your enemy can become your friend.
When most of us hear news that we assume
it to be true and we do not give those who we know the benefit of the doubt.
Instead we are ready to stab them in the back with anything we can get our
hands on.
The Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him)
never did this and he had the best character. Ponder the fact that one of his greatest opponents in
Medinah was Abdullah Ibn Salul. He was earmarked for leadership before the
Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him). So Abdullah verbally
opposed him in almost any situation that presented itself. He became known as the
leader of the hypocrites and when he died his own son came to the Prophet (may
Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) and requested that he lead the
funeral prayer. The Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) did
not refuse! This is an astonishing fact!
What would you do with someone who spent years undermining your authority? He who severely weakened the Muslim forces at Uhud? Whenever Abdullah saw miracles, he flatly denied them. Yet look how the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) did not return evil for evil. Later did the prohibition come for him not to lead the prayer for hypocrites.
What would you do with someone who spent years undermining your authority? He who severely weakened the Muslim forces at Uhud? Whenever Abdullah saw miracles, he flatly denied them. Yet look how the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) did not return evil for evil. Later did the prohibition come for him not to lead the prayer for hypocrites.
The Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) was a man of the highest moral conduct so a person with such qualities does not do anything lowly.
Also part of the Prophet’s (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) nature was mercy towards everyone.
The Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) had such an elevated moral conduct that he could not harm anything. Would you pray for someone who undermined you for years? He (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) did and that’s what makes his have the highest moral character of them all.
وَإِنَّكَ لَعَلَىٰ خُلُقٍ عَظِيمٍ
“You have the greatest character.”
Al-Qalam 64:4.
This whole piece of work is dedicated to one facet of
the greatest character of our beloved Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and
blessings upon him). He (may Allah bestow peace
and blessings upon him) never returned the evil that was given to him with evil. How many of us fight fire with fire? When this was not the way of the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him). He (may Allah bestow peace
and blessings upon him) put out fires with water not petrol. If you were to delve deeper than you would find more and
more aspects of exemplary conduct.
The Messenger of Allah (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) said,
إنما بعثت لأتمم مكارم
الأخلاق
أحمد
أحمد
“I was only sent to complete noble characteristics.” (Imam
Ahmed).
It means that honourable character did exist but it was not
complete. Like a great story without an end; the Prophet (may Allah bestow
peace and blessings be upon him) came and completed the story. Now it is
complete we can now truly understand noble character as it is all summed up in
him (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him).
The greatest example of showing kindness to the undeserving is how Allah (the Exalted) treats us, despite all our sins. Allah blesses us even though we are totally unworthy
of a single blessing. We continually fill our records with bad deeds yet Allah shows goodness to us and does us no wrong yet how we wrong ourselves. Ponder the kindness of a
blessed Lord who knows all our sins, all our evil actions, those things people
know of and those that no one knows, yet he shows us mercy, kindness and so
many things we are truly and utterly unworthy of.
Opening of Mecca
This was another, and perhaps the greatest, act of
forgiveness performed by historical figure. To forgive an entire city of people who
in twenty years showed you and your followers no mercy. They tortured and killed
many Muslims including prisoners and especially the weak. This is a prime
example of how the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him)
showed mercy instead of enacting retribution. I am not sure that others would be so forgiving.
They had murdered and mutilated members of his own family yet he forgave them. Then they became Muslims and were accepted! So through forgiveness and goodness he showed to them they came into the faith that they had previously rejected. It’s a wonderful event and one needs to pondered over it. So study it and read through this event thoroughly.
They had murdered and mutilated members of his own family yet he forgave them. Then they became Muslims and were accepted! So through forgiveness and goodness he showed to them they came into the faith that they had previously rejected. It’s a wonderful event and one needs to pondered over it. So study it and read through this event thoroughly.
Qureysh
Also ponder how Qureysh harmed him and maligned him (may
Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) yet he did not resort to similar
tactics. He (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) kept calling them
to Islam and did not retaliate when he could have so easily done.
Look at the event of Ta’if whilst the Prophet (may Allah
bestow peace and blessings upon him) lay bleeding, the angels of the mountains
came who wanted the instruction to destroy the people he was called to. But the
Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) refused and instead
choose mercy instead of returning their evil with evil. Purely because his
nature was so good that he (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) had
nothing but goodness in him. So his (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon
him) reaction is goodness.
Then ponder the events of Uhud when the Prophet (may Allah
bestow peace and blessings upon him) was hurt and Fatimah (may Allah be
pleased with her) was tending to his wounds, she would criticize the pagan Qureysh, "the Prophet (may Allah bestow
peace and blessings upon him) would say, “Allah forgive my people for they know
not.” (Imam Al-Bayhaqi Dalail Al-Nabuwwah).
Despite their harm and shedding of his (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) blood, he (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) did not return their evil with evil.
Despite their harm and shedding of his (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) blood, he (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) did not return their evil with evil.
Where do we stand with this?
How many times have we got road rage and not given the
driver the benefit of the doubt? Maybe their car is on the way to the garage
and needs repair. We love to talk about Sunnah but are we ready to live by it?
We love to give great lectures but are we ready to stand by and give to those
who harmed us? We do face slander and harm but if we complain all the time,
where does that leave us? So how does this benefit us? Or do we merely narrate and not practice? Where does that leave us but astray.
Well look at the
narration of the Jewish man who came to the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and
blessings upon him) to inquire about a debt. The Jewish man was rude but the
Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) dealt with him in a
gentle manner; Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) was ready to
kill him! So the Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) told
Umar to pay back the debt and give him more because Umar scared him. Then the
Jewish man became Muslim because he had seen all the characteristics of the
Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) in the Torah except forbearance
and he witnessed that now! So ponder the fact had he (may Allah bestow peace
and blessings upon him) saw something in the Jew and wanted it to be manifest
so took a loan. So what was manifest could come out, his faith. But without his (may Allah bestow peace
and blessings upon him) kindness that faith of the Jewish man would never have manifested.
You never know the effect of showing good character will
do to a person especially in a time in which traditional values have but
disappeared. If someone shows a non Muslim good character then this will
change hearts. There are many Non-Muslim with excellent moral conduct and many Muslims who still have a lot to learn.
It was the adherents to tasawwaf/Islamic spiritually that
spread Islam in those early centuries. As the political power was spread within
one hundred years from France to China. But the actual population acceptance of
Islam took hundreds of years. The catalyst was the hearts that were with Allah (the
Exalted). They changed those who they came into contact and spread Islam. So next
time you want to vent that self righteous anger, think again the Prophet (may
Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) did not that.
He (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) extinguished evil with goodness. Those who want to practice the Sunnah should start with this; if they are true to their own words. Instead of screaming out of misguided and unwanted fervor that belies the law and the character of who they claim to follow!!!
He (may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) extinguished evil with goodness. Those who want to practice the Sunnah should start with this; if they are true to their own words. Instead of screaming out of misguided and unwanted fervor that belies the law and the character of who they claim to follow!!!
Saturday, June 07, 2014
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Wednesday, May 28, 2014
Sunday, May 25, 2014
What's in a name? Giving your child a Muslim name?
You called your child what? Are
you joking? You know, it never ceases to make me cringe when I hear the names
that some parents give their children. I am not joking about this but it is
something horrific. If only the child knew the meaning of the name; what would
they say? Would they not cringe as I do? Well anyway as ever is granddad is
going to give advice. Well that's what someone called it when my mouth opens
and words come out!
Where did you get it from?
Yes, where did you that from? I
have never heard of it before and you have picked it out of fresh air and
placed it before me! If it was a dagger I would quote Shakespeare! Now due to
the Indo Pak slang of Arabic words good names are given a totally different
meanings. The famous example is Thamina which in Arabic means priceless. This
is what daughters are like to their fathers but when you read that Tha as sa
the meaning changes totally. So Thamina becomes Samina which means fat. This
name corruption would make those who understand Arabic howl with laughter when
they hear it!
Iqra is another common girls
name. It's the first word revealed of the Quran but what does it mean? It's a
common verb in the imperative form meaning read. It's not a name! Okay? It's
not a name! Also giving children names that are not names is not proper at all! Read, come over here!
Lists and personalities
The list of incorrect name is
very long and it makes me shudder to even think of them! Names that are titles
can be okay, as long as you do not tell people to use the entire title when
calling them! Like Zayn Al-Abideen etc. Other names that should not be given like Yasrab/He drinks, dhahan/brain, siham/arrows, Nadeem/regret and the
list goes on.
Also avoid name of personalities that have bad
names in Islamic history; like Yazid, Hajaj, Pervez, Ummayyah/ the name of the
tribe against Ahl Al-Bayt and it also means illiterate etc. And all their ilk
should be avoided at all costs. If you
have a name that has a bad connotation then change your name by deed
poll for goodness sake!
99 names
Now this is a very contentious
issue that many do not understand. The Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and
blessings upon him) advised to give names with praise or servitude linked in
them. Like his blessed name or a name that means slave of Allah or one of the
99 names.
The only problem is when people
use the second part of the word omitting Abd/slave. The common example is Haseeb; his
name should be Abdulhasseb but now it's just Haseeb. This is permissible but
should be avoided because of potential harm in it. Why? Because Allah has
attributes/siffat and creation has characteristics/khuluq. These are two
different things, look in the Quran how Allah describes the Prophet (may Allah
bestow peace and blessings upon him) as Rauf/compassionate and raheem/merciful.
These are not attributes/safat like Allah rather these are characteristics
which makes them permissible and different. Because most people misunderstand
them, in particular, our petrol fueled friends; they should be avoided. (In
terms of usage). So someone can name their child any of the names of the 99
names except Al-Rahman and of course the name Allah. The last two are not to be
used under any circumstances. Even though the other terms are permissible
it does not mean that they should be used it's better not to. Names in common
usage are Majid and Ali etc.
The word Abd Al-Nabi or Ghulam
Nabi have much controversy because it's not understood what abd means. Abd has
two meanings one is servant and other is slave. (Abdul is not a name it means
slave of - that's not a name!) The common misunderstanding of the word Abd is
that is means slave and there is no other possible meaning. When Abdulmustafa
is used its a servant but not in terms of worship. Servant meaning khadim not
anything other. Slavehood is solely for Allah and not for anything or anyone else. So
someone can have the name Abdulmustafa meaning the servant of Mustafa. This is
not shirk because it means servant not slave. Similar is the name Ghulam
Mustafa and so on. Do not forget the name that is not possible to give is Sami
ullah which means the hearing of Allah. This is something that's highly
disliked or even unlawful. No one can be the hearing of Allah (the Exalted). Do
not allow someone to give this name to their children.
The Prophet (may Allah bestow
peace and blessings upon him) had servants himself. Zayd ibn Al-Harith (may
Allah be pleased with him) was a gift to him by our lady Khadijah (may Allah be
pleased with her); for their wedding.
Does Al/the matter and Raab
We look at Surah Yusuf for the
best story of a family separated and reunited. That's why it's so important.
Yusuf (upon him peace) helps a man with a dream and he says 'mention me to
your lord' (verse 42); this is used in term of king and not in terms of lordship
of God. Here, the word is not used like Raab Al-'Alameen/Lord of universe or otherwise.
Normally Raab is used with another noun and not on its own. But most of all
look at the context before becoming the judge, jury and executioner.
Also latter we that the Pharaoh
is called Al-'Aziz and this title is given to Yusuf (upon him peace). Had it
been shirk/polytheism Yusuf would not have allowed it. Also ال does not make a difference because
it just means the.
Picked from the Quran
We all love the Quran but let's
detach our emotions from it. Picking a name out of the Quran without
understanding and out of context; its irrational and dangerous. Why? Because
you do not understand what the name means or what the context is. You pick out
a name like Rauwada which sounds good but it means flowing; it's not a child's
name! Neither is naming your child after an item like a sword or an arrow. So
do not pick a name from the Quran without knowing what it means exactly. Or
else you want to call your child a silly name that does not mean what you think
it means! Change the name!
Do not forget that the Prophet
(may Allah bestow peace and blessings upon him) changed names of
companions that had bad meanings. Abu Hurayrah's name before Islam was
AbdusShams/Slave of the sun. The Prophet (may Allah bestow peace and blessings
upon him) changed it to Abdurrahman/Slave of the All-Merciful.
One of his wives had an incorrect
name and he changed it into Zaynab. why is it important to change names? The
Arabs have a saying that everyone has a share of their name. So if you call
your daughter Samina do not be surprised if she is fat! Or if you call your son
saghir/small and his growth is stunted!
Culture and language
This does play a part too because a meaning of one name in Hindi might not mean that same thing in Arabic. So I would recommend looking for the meaning of a name generally in Arabic before considering names. Although it does not mean you have to name your children with Arabic only names rather the meaning must be good. Naheem means praise of God in the language of Hindi but in Arabic it could mean clearing ones throat or avarice. It could also be a corruption of Naeem.
Also there are lot of badly spelt names, so please spell them correctly.
This does play a part too because a meaning of one name in Hindi might not mean that same thing in Arabic. So I would recommend looking for the meaning of a name generally in Arabic before considering names. Although it does not mean you have to name your children with Arabic only names rather the meaning must be good. Naheem means praise of God in the language of Hindi but in Arabic it could mean clearing ones throat or avarice. It could also be a corruption of Naeem.
Also there are lot of badly spelt names, so please spell them correctly.
How should I choose a name?
Simple start by names of any
Prophet, their wives or family then companions. Find out the meaning of the
names. Check the meaning of the name with a book of Muslim names. Email me if
you have to! Then feel free to give it and relax. Please do not let me hear
daft names that are not names.
Also please spell them in Arabic
not your local tongue! Usman/Osman should be Uthman etc. You have not a clue
how tired I am from hearing names that not names! Peace!
Wednesday, May 21, 2014
Tuesday, May 20, 2014
Commentary on the Quranic verse, “Remember me; I shall remember you.”
Commentary on
the Quranic verse, “Remember me; I shall remember you.”
From Tafsir
Al-Khateeb Al-Sharbini also known Al-Siraj Al-Munir fi Al-‘Ianat ‘ala Ma’rifah
ba’d Ma’ani kalam Rubbuna Al-Hakim Al-Khabir
By Sheikh Muhammad ibn Ahmed Al-Khateeb Al-Sharbini Al-Misri (977 h) p.119/120.
Commentary on the Quranic verse, “Remember me; I shall
remember you.”
Surah Al-Baqarah 2:152.
“Remember me,” by acts of obedience like prayer and
magnification, “I shall remember you,” Ibn ‘Abbas said by his support and Sa’id
ibn Jubair said by his forgiveness. It was stated, “Remember me in blessing and
affluence and I shall remember in difficult and tribulation.” As is stated by
the Exalted, “And had he not been one of those who glorifiers; He would have
tarried in its belly till the day when they are raised.” (Surah As-Safah
37:143-144.)
In a divine hadith Allah, the Exalted, states, “Allah (The
Exalted) said I am affirm my servants opinion of me; therefore I am with him
when he remembers me; if he mentions me to himself; I mention him to myself; if
he mentions me to a gathering; I mention him in a better gathering. If he
approaches to the extent of a hand span; I approach him to the extent of a
cubit; if he approaches me the extent of a cubit; I approach him walking and he
comes to me walking, I approaching him rapidly.” (Bukhari 7405 and Muslim 2675)
In another narration the Messenger of Allah (may Allah
bestow peace and blessings upon him) said, “Allah, the Exalted, said, “O son of
Adam if you mention me in yourself and I shall mention you to myself. If you
mention me in a gathering I mention you in gathering better than it. If you
approach me a hand span I approach him a cubit. If you approach me by a cubit
then I approach him walking. If he walks to me then I approach him rapidly. If
he asks me I give. If he does not ask me then I am angry with him.”
(‘Abdurrazak in Al-Musanaf 20575).
In a narration the Messenger of Allah (may Allah bestow
peace and blessings upon him) said, “Allah, Mighty and Majestic, said, “I am
with my servant when he mentions me and when he moves his lips.” (Al-Bukhari
and Ibn Majah 3792).
In a narration a bedouin came to the Prophet (may Allah
bestow peace and blessings upon him) and asked, ‘O Messenger of Allah which is
the most virtuous action?’ He replied, “To leave the world whilst your tongue
is moist with the remembrance of Allah.” (At-Tirmidhi 3375 and Ibn Majah 3793).
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